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ANXIETY THERAPY IN LOS FELIZ, CA

Break out of the constant state of “what if.”

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You’re always wondering when the other shoe will drop…and how long you can keep holding it together.

Your mind just doesn’t slow down. It replays conversations from three days ago and invents conversations that haven’t even happened yet. You imagine worst-case scenarios in vivid detail—what if you fail, what if you embarrass yourself…what if everything falls apart? And then, when things do go well, there’s a voice in the background questioning it.

Your body feels it, too. Your shoulders are often tight, your jaw is clenched, or your stomach is in knots.

At the end of the day, your brain is still running on overdrive—reviewing the last 24 hours (or week, or year), planning tomorrow, and as always, catastrophizing about the future. You might look capable and “fine” on the outside, but internally you feel wired, exhausted, and stuck in your own head. You’re tired of ruminating, of second-guessing yourself, and of feeling like your nervous system is constantly bracing for something to go wrong.

YOUR MIND ISN’T BROKEN—IT JUST NEEDS NEW TOOLS.


How I can help

I WANT TO HELP YOU SHIFT FROM REACTING TO LIFE TO CONSCIOUSLY CREATING IT.

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When anxiety has been running the show for a long time, it can feel like your mind and body are working against you. And when you’re someone who works in the creative world or in demanding professional settings, you’re often expected to move fast, stay productive, and carry a lot of responsibility. Your mind doesn’t shut off, and your body doesn’t either. (And those skillsets likely aren’t things you can afford to lose.) I understand that, so I work hard to create a grounded, real space where you can talk openly about what’s happening in your mind, your body, and your day-to-day life.

Our work begins with building trust and connection between us. Once there’s that safety and understanding, we start mapping out your patterns:

  • What ramps your anxiety up

  • What shuts you down

  • What helps you feel more steady or calm

  • What kinds of thought loops and cycles you get stuck in


You’ll learn practical tools—breathwork, grounding techniques, somatic practices, and ways to interrupt rumination—so you’re not just understanding your anxiety, you’re actually changing how your system responds to it.

We’ll also go deeper, because that’s where the lasting change actually happens. We’ll go looking for how these patterns of anxiety and stress developed in the first place and use approaches like EMDR, Brainspotting, and other mind-body practices to shift how anxiety lives in your system. You can move beyond just fighting anxiety and more toward a way of living that supports your nervous system, your creativity, and the life you actually want to be living.


WHAT COULD LIFE FEEL LIKE IF ANXIETY WEREN’T RUNNING THE SHOW?

“I’m so sick of my mind.”

I don’t have to battle my thoughts constantly. I know how to step out of the spiral.

“My body is so tense.”

I listen to what my body needs, and I feel looser, more relaxed, and comfortable with myself.

“I’m constantly worrying about relationships or conflict.”

I’m learning how to feel secure in relationships and less controlled by fear of rejection.

“My nervous system feels completely jacked up.”

My body knows how to settle, and I have tools to feel calm when anxiety comes.

“I feel like an imposter at work or in my creative life.”

I feel confident in my skills and trust my own abilities. Anxiety isn’t in charge, I am.

“I feel wired but exhausted all the time.”

I know how to slow down and actually rest without feeling on edge.

WE CAN HELP YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM FIND A NEW RHYTHM.

FAQs

COMMON QUESTIONS

  • Anxiety can develop for many reasons—genetics, life experiences, chronic stress, trauma, systemic factors, structural inequities, or any kind of environment that requires you to stay on high alert. Your nervous system can learn patterns of scanning for danger, even when you’re safe, but the good news is these patterns can change.

  • Anxiety isn’t just a mental experience. When your nervous system perceives any kind of threat or uncertainty, it activates a stress response that can create muscle tension, shallow breathing, digestive issues, sleep problems, or panic attacks. A large part of our work together focuses on helping your body learn that it’s safe again, so it doesn’t have to stay in that constant state of activation.

  • Both. Learning practical tools to calm anxiety is incredibly important, and I make it a priority to provide you with techniques you can use right away to regulate your nervous system and interrupt cycles of rumination or panic.

    At the same time, we also explore the deeper layers of anxiety—how it may have developed through past experiences, relationships, attachment patterns, or long-standing beliefs about yourself and the world. This combination of practical support and deeper exploration is key because it allows you to create meaningful, lasting change rather than just temporary relief.

  • This is a common concern for artists and creative professionals, and I get it. Many worry that if they become calmer or less anxious, they’ll lose the drive, sensitivity, or emotional depth that fuels their work. In reality, the opposite is usually true. When your nervous system is less overwhelmed, your mind becomes clearer, your focus improves, and your creative energy is easier to access. I don’t seek to dull your sensitivity—our work together will help increase your nervous system capacity and your ability to be your authentic self.

  • Many people with anxiety have very active imaginations and highly perceptive minds. The same mental abilities that allow someone to create, analyze complex ideas, or notice subtle patterns can also make the brain very good at imagining potential problems. In therapy, we don’t try to “turn off” those abilities. Instead, we work on helping your nervous system feel safer and teaching your mind how to step out of cycles of destructive thinking so those strengths can work for you rather than against you.

  • Yes. Panic attacks can be extremely overwhelming and frightening, but they’re a common response from a nervous system that’s under a lot of stress. I can help you learn practical tools to help your body calm down when panic starts to rise. We’ll also explore what’s driving those reactions so your nervous system can begin to feel safer—and panic attacks happen less often and feel much more manageable.

  • Anxiety is one of the main challenges I work with in my practice—and one of the areas I feel most passionate about. My background includes training in trauma therapy, nervous system regulation, somatic approaches, and mind-body practices that help address anxiety at both the psychological and physiological levels. I’ve also authored a book on panic attacks and anxiety, which reflects the depth of my focus in this area. You can learn more here.

    I integrate practical tools—such as breathing techniques, grounding practices, and cognitive strategies—with deeper methods like EMDR, Brainspotting, and nervous system education. This allows us to not only manage anxious thoughts (because anxiety is usually about something deeper), but also help your body learn how to settle and respond differently over time.